About Monique

Monique’s story

A psychotherapist since 1980, a teacher of clinicians, and someone who loves bringing people together—in a therapy room, a training, or out in the wild.

Monique Lang, LCSW, smiling outdoors among yellow blossoms

“I love to create experiences for people to connect with their authentic Self. I love to be in and create community. I delight in connecting with people and connecting people with each other for their mutual growth and success. I am passionate about sharing my love of the wilderness and of silence in the Mindfulness Retreats I facilitate. More recently it has been my privilege to co-lead journeys to South America to work with Shamans and indigenous medicine people to learn from them and to share those healing practices with the people who join me.”

Monique

She also likes thinking outside the box, and helps people and organizations create new programs and services.

Where she comes from

A life in many places

Monique was born in France, grew up in Central America, and has lived in many different states and countries. Moving so often was hard at the time, but it gave her a feel for different cultures, backgrounds and spiritual traditions. She says that understanding helps her put each person’s background and way of seeing the world into context.

Before becoming a psychotherapist, she was an editor of financial research publications, a security analyst, a translator, an office manager for a community action group, and a program director at a community center. She credits those jobs with giving her a wider lens for understanding the people she works with.

After many years in New York City, she now lives and works in Syracuse, in upstate New York.

Her practice

Four decades of practice

Monique has been in private practice since 1980, working with individuals and couples, and has focused on trauma throughout that time. For 18 years she was a staff counselor at the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies.

In the early 1980s she created the first Rape Crisis Center in Westchester, New York, and developed programs for people living with HIV and AIDS and their families, for teenage mothers (combining parenting skills with GED preparation), and for high school students doing community service.

For about 15 years she has also worked with people seeking asylum in the United States: interviewing them, writing psychological affidavits and occasionally testifying in court.

How she trained

Ways of working she has learned

Over the decades, Monique has come to honor both ancient practices and contemporary Western models of psychotherapy.

  • Psychoanalysis and Gestalt

    Her original training.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    Certified.

  • Sensorimotor Psychotherapy and the Comprehensive Resource Model

    Proficient.

  • Past Life Regression

    Certified.

  • Reiki and shamanic practices and ceremonies

    Certified.

  • Meditation and mindfulness

    A student of meditation for more than 20 years.

Service & teaching

Leadership and teaching

  • Aldea Counseling Services

    Former Director.

  • Internal Family Systems Association

    Former president.

  • Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, Trauma Studies Program

    Executive committee member; facilitated the program’s process group and supervised candidates.

  • Association for Spirituality & Psychotherapy

    Former Board member.

  • New York State Coalition Against Sexual Abuse

    Former Board member.

  • Universities, conferences and retreat centers

    Has taught in several universities, and led workshops and trainings at the Omega Institute, Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health and the New York Open Center.

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